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F. The Disciple-Making Element – Guiding People into Lifelong Growth in Christ

To equip pastors with a vision and strategy for making disciples at every age and stage of life, creating a culture where spiritual maturity and multiplication are the norm, not the exception.


Introduction: The Commission that Never Expires

Opening Thought:
“Jesus didn’t just call us to build crowds—He commanded us to make disciples.”

Scripture Anchor:

“Go and make disciples of all nations… teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” – Matthew 28:19–20

Prompt for Reflection:
“What does a fully discipled person look like in your church—and do you have a clear path for getting them there?”


What Is the Disciple-Making Element?

Definition:
The Disciple-Making Element focuses on the spiritual formation of people from birth to death—moving them from new believers to mature, reproducing disciples, or what we call “spiritual grandparents.”

Why It Matters:

  • It fulfills Jesus’ Great Commission.
  • It builds depth, not just width.
  • It creates sustainability and multiplication across generations.

Key Lanes of Disciple-Making

Each lane plays a vital role in helping people grow in Christ.

1. Kids Ministry

  • Goal: Lay a biblical foundation and introduce children to a personal faith.
  • Focus Areas: Top 50 Bible Stories, reading the bible, prayer, experiencing God, family discipleship
  • Guiding Question: “Are we just entertaining kids or making little disciples?”

2. Youth Ministry

  • Goal: Help students develop a personal and resilient faith in Jesus.
  • Focus Areas: Three-year approach with Bible engagement, connecting with God, worldview, Identity, belonging, and spiritual habits.
  • Guiding Question: “Are our teens being prepared to stand firm and stand out in culture?”

3. Adult Discipleship in Groups

  • Goal: Create communities for spiritual growth, accountability, and mission.
  • Focus Areas: Life groups, mentoring pairs, discipleship huddles, Sunday classes. See Disciple-Making Masterclass for more information.
  • Guiding Question: “Do we offer clear next steps for every adult to grow deeper?”

4. Sunday Morning Services

  • Goal: Inspire, teach, and form discipleship habits in the gathered church body.
  • Focus Areas: Bible-based preaching, Christ-centered worship, personal application, response opportunities.
  • Key Insight: Sunday is not the only place discipleship happens—but it’s often the first.
  • Best Practices: Include “next steps” in sermons to move people beyond the moment.
  • Guiding Question: “Are our services designed to grow disciples, not just fill seats?”

6. Ministries as Discipleship Vehicles

  • Definition: Every ministry (worship, outreach, hospitality, etc.) becomes a place of intentional spiritual growth.
  • Key Principle: Serving is not just doing—it’s becoming.
  • Guiding Question: “Do our ministry teams know they’re part of the discipleship process?”

7. Generational Growth & Reproduction

  • Concept: Disciples become disciple-makers. Spiritual “parents” become “grandparents.”
  • Language: From “attending” to “reproducing.”
  • Guiding Question: “Who is being discipled, and who are they discipling?”

Assessment Activity: Discipleship Pathway Checkup

  • Do we have a clear discipleship path for each life stage and environment?
  • How do we help a new believer take their next step?
  • Where do we currently lack intentionality in spiritual formation?
  • Are we measuring attendance or transformation?
  • How can Sunday services become more intentionally disciple-forming in your context?
  • Are you currently discipling people or managing programs?
  • What’s one lane of discipleship in your church that needs better alignment?

Rate (1–5) the strength of each lane:

  • Kids
  • Youth
  • Adults
  • Sunday Services
  • Ministries
  • Generational Reproduction

Application: Building a Culture of Discipleship

Challenge to Pastors:
“Identify one group or environment (kids, youth, adults, Sunday services, etc.) where you will focus new energy on intentional discipleship this quarter.”

Ideas for Action:

  • Create a “Discipleship Moment” at the end of every Sunday message.
  • Train group leaders to mentor emerging leaders.
  • Develop milestone pathways for every age group.
  • Clarify how each ministry leader contributes to the disciple-making mission.

Closing Thought:

“Discipleship isn’t a ministry of the church. It is the ministry of the church.”

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